Mr Nice vs Mr Jerk
Is there a problem with me or is there a problem with the people who reads my boredom. Why are all the previous posts getting comments and not the most recent? Is it me or are there some other forces out there at work?
Well forget about that, today had a very wonderful chat with Mason, interested with the topic? Do not worry, I will tell, the topic was all around the Art of Attraction.
We chatted on many things which revolve around attracting the opposite species. Isn’t it weird that mostly the opposite species are attracted to one kind of guy; basically a jerk, rather to a nice guy; average Joe. As the discussion continued, somehow or another, we identified what characteristics may be classified as a jerk and a nice guy. Well the results were really shocking but someway it might be true.
A jerk; macho, man in power, cocky, do not treat opposite species nice, play hard to get, flirtatious, bad boy, humorous.
A nice guy; pleases the opposite species, talk softly and sweetly, buy stuff for opposite species, apple polish opposite species, do not dare to talk against opposite species, be extra nice the that particular opposite species.
With all those information, a normal person would choose the nice guy, wrong. Most opposite species would be very attracted to the jerk. This cannot be explained by logic. Attraction is not logic at the first place, it is not science, it is part of the human nature; the root gut feeling. No matter how much you may try to talk a person out of love, it will always fail at 95% confidence level.
As it turn out, a nice guy furthest luck with the opposite species his really like will for eternity end up close friends / best friends / and many other more; how many of you guys have experience this before, be truthful guys. To those who think I am lying, trust me, I have plenty of experience which concluded this way.
Have you ever admired a perfect jerk dating someone attractive? Have you ever thought that she will be very lucky if she is with you, as you will treat her like a princess? Do not worry, keep the answer for yourself. Well, ask yourself, why the heck something that attractive dating something so jerk-ish?
The answer; attraction. Jerks tend to be more in command over the opposite species, which give a very good impression over the jerks. They are like a macho men, someone cocky but yet funny and always there to do something really nice (in their point of view) when they least expected it. To top that up, the opposite species really, I mean freaking like, a guy who will play hard to get and mysterious about his plans. These stuff makes the opposite species think of them and try to predict their next move or moves. Come to think of it, who the hell want to be with a person who is so predictable, it will be real boredom (thank you, that is where is fit right in).
Now imagine, an attractive opposite species with loads of guys coming over her, will she ever choose a guy who is just plainly nice? With that loads of guys, it can be said that about 80% of these guys were nice, or plainly act nice. These leaving 20% of the guys, who could be just jerks. And one of these jerks would be that lucky fellow getting the opposite species. (The following can be quite offensive and may be untrue) Normally after some MNS, the jerk would leave the opposite species once the thought of commitment comes into the beautiful love picture or the jerk found another attractive opposite species.
Guys out there, who are just Joes, it is time for us to single out what qualities the jerks poses, and then maybe we can become Joe Blacks.
Well forget about that, today had a very wonderful chat with Mason, interested with the topic? Do not worry, I will tell, the topic was all around the Art of Attraction.
We chatted on many things which revolve around attracting the opposite species. Isn’t it weird that mostly the opposite species are attracted to one kind of guy; basically a jerk, rather to a nice guy; average Joe. As the discussion continued, somehow or another, we identified what characteristics may be classified as a jerk and a nice guy. Well the results were really shocking but someway it might be true.
A jerk; macho, man in power, cocky, do not treat opposite species nice, play hard to get, flirtatious, bad boy, humorous.
A nice guy; pleases the opposite species, talk softly and sweetly, buy stuff for opposite species, apple polish opposite species, do not dare to talk against opposite species, be extra nice the that particular opposite species.
With all those information, a normal person would choose the nice guy, wrong. Most opposite species would be very attracted to the jerk. This cannot be explained by logic. Attraction is not logic at the first place, it is not science, it is part of the human nature; the root gut feeling. No matter how much you may try to talk a person out of love, it will always fail at 95% confidence level.
As it turn out, a nice guy furthest luck with the opposite species his really like will for eternity end up close friends / best friends / and many other more; how many of you guys have experience this before, be truthful guys. To those who think I am lying, trust me, I have plenty of experience which concluded this way.
Have you ever admired a perfect jerk dating someone attractive? Have you ever thought that she will be very lucky if she is with you, as you will treat her like a princess? Do not worry, keep the answer for yourself. Well, ask yourself, why the heck something that attractive dating something so jerk-ish?
The answer; attraction. Jerks tend to be more in command over the opposite species, which give a very good impression over the jerks. They are like a macho men, someone cocky but yet funny and always there to do something really nice (in their point of view) when they least expected it. To top that up, the opposite species really, I mean freaking like, a guy who will play hard to get and mysterious about his plans. These stuff makes the opposite species think of them and try to predict their next move or moves. Come to think of it, who the hell want to be with a person who is so predictable, it will be real boredom (thank you, that is where is fit right in).
Now imagine, an attractive opposite species with loads of guys coming over her, will she ever choose a guy who is just plainly nice? With that loads of guys, it can be said that about 80% of these guys were nice, or plainly act nice. These leaving 20% of the guys, who could be just jerks. And one of these jerks would be that lucky fellow getting the opposite species. (The following can be quite offensive and may be untrue) Normally after some MNS, the jerk would leave the opposite species once the thought of commitment comes into the beautiful love picture or the jerk found another attractive opposite species.
Guys out there, who are just Joes, it is time for us to single out what qualities the jerks poses, and then maybe we can become Joe Blacks.
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